Dating someone from Dallas – Fort Worth isn’t necessarily simple or stress-free. Locals have some mighty big expectations about courtships, and unless you are from the area as well, you may find some initial adjustments are in order before reaching relationship nirvana. The good news is that most North Texans still possess old fashioned manners and charm, are generous to a fault, and have really big hearts. So if you can make it through the first few dates, you’ll find that your Texas sweetheart is quite the catch. Here’s what you need to know beforehand:

  1. Our Texas pride is unwavering.

Adam Simmons/Flickr We believe that the Lone Star State is the very best state in the nation, and won’t compromise on our love of Texas!

  1. We have a STRONG allegiance to either being a Dallasite or a Fort Worthian.

Daxis/Flickr Be sure to know who you are dealing with when dating a local. There are differences, even though we live only 35 miles away from one another. Dallasites include all the suburbs to the east like Plano, McKinney, Garland, Rockwall, Frisco, Carrollton, and more.

DeeAshley/Flickr Fort Worthians are those in Tarrant County and in the Mid-Cities area, including Southlake, Hurst, Euless, Bedford, North Richland Hills, Colleyville, Weatherford, Aledo, among others.

  1. We’ll argue that Dallas has the most incredible cityscape in the land, regardless of where we live in the Metroplex.

Teddie Bridget Proctor/Flickr Between Reunion Tower’s nightly light show, brightly illuminated buildings, and the views reflecting in the Trinity River, how can you possibly disagree?

  1. We have hearty appetites and expect big portions.

Kevin/Flickr Our love for Texas beef, cream gravy, peach cobbler, biscuits and gravy, and Tex-Mex doesn’t leave much room for picky eaters. When we go out to eat, we plan to leave full!

Kimberly N./Flickr Of course, jalapenos and spice are just part of being Texan!

  1. We’d rather dine outdoors whenever the opportunity permits.

Diann Bayes/Flickr Our warm weather allows opportunities for year-round outdoor dining. Many of our bars and hangouts have outdoor areas as well. Cold? Look for seating around a space heater. You’ll be fine.

  1. The Texas heat is a blessing, not a curse.

k.draper/Flickr Over 100-degrees? No problem! Dress accordingly, and don a hat if needed.

  1. We crave outdoor time around here, and expect our partners to as well.

Kent Wang/Flickr

  1. Bonus points are awarded for owning a dog.

Paul Saad/Flickr We adore animals and being outdoors, so combining a walk on a date is extra special!

  1. We love romance and aren’t afraid to show it.

Thomas Hawk/Flickr

  1. We prefer to take part in fun activities on dates, like play a game of billiards, go dancing, or get out and explore. There’s too much to do to waste time just sitting around!

Kat/Flickr

  1. The water calls to us.

John McStravick/Flickr With countless lakes, fishing, camping, water sports, and more, don’t be surprised if we suggest a date at a local lake.

  1. NOTHING beats a Texas sunset.

andy curry/Flickr While we’re frequently on-the-go, sometimes we like to slow it down a notch and take in a spectacular North Texas sky.

  1. We like things BIG.

Adam Simmons/Flickr Texans are bold, so forget the subtleties. Whether it’s big houses, big hair, or big appetites, BIG rules supreme.

  1. Even if we are now city dwellers, we still love our wide open spaces.

Dave Hensley/Flickr Lucky for us, the Dallas - Fort Worth area features plenty of small towns and undisturbed lands, countless parks, greenbelt areas, and plenty of room to roam only a short drive away,.

  1. We cherish our Texas state flower, the Bluebonnet, and love taking pictures in the fields.

Jessica Wissel/Flickr It’s a tradition to take photos in our blue-and-orange fields each spring. If we ask you to take a photo in them, it means you are someone special!

  1. We actually think this creature is kinda cute, and hope you do too!

CameliaTWU/Flickr If you don’t know what a Texas armadillo is, we might suggest some Texas therapy. We expect our partner to share some of the same enthusiasm about the grandiose Lone Star State as we do!

  1. Sports are our world year-round.

knightdust5/Flickr With professional teams in football, basketball, hockey, baseball, motorsports, rodeo, and more, we hope you are fans as well!

  1. We are generous and have truly giving hearts.

Brian’s Dallas Habitat For Humanity Photos/Flickr We volunteer our time and would love for you to join in too. Our passion for helping others is one of the aspects that make us proud to be a Texan!

What other reasons make dating someone from Dallas – Fort Worth a good relationship risk? We’d love to hear about your lessons learned or things you think a newbie should know about dating someone from the Metroplex! Please share your comments below.

Adam Simmons/Flickr

We believe that the Lone Star State is the very best state in the nation, and won’t compromise on our love of Texas!

Daxis/Flickr

Be sure to know who you are dealing with when dating a local. There are differences, even though we live only 35 miles away from one another. Dallasites include all the suburbs to the east like Plano, McKinney, Garland, Rockwall, Frisco, Carrollton, and more.

DeeAshley/Flickr

Fort Worthians are those in Tarrant County and in the Mid-Cities area, including Southlake, Hurst, Euless, Bedford, North Richland Hills, Colleyville, Weatherford, Aledo, among others.

Teddie Bridget Proctor/Flickr

Between Reunion Tower’s nightly light show, brightly illuminated buildings, and the views reflecting in the Trinity River, how can you possibly disagree?

Kevin/Flickr

Our love for Texas beef, cream gravy, peach cobbler, biscuits and gravy, and Tex-Mex doesn’t leave much room for picky eaters. When we go out to eat, we plan to leave full!

Kimberly N./Flickr

Of course, jalapenos and spice are just part of being Texan!

Diann Bayes/Flickr

Our warm weather allows opportunities for year-round outdoor dining. Many of our bars and hangouts have outdoor areas as well. Cold? Look for seating around a space heater. You’ll be fine.

k.draper/Flickr

Over 100-degrees? No problem! Dress accordingly, and don a hat if needed.

Kent Wang/Flickr

Paul Saad/Flickr

We adore animals and being outdoors, so combining a walk on a date is extra special!

Thomas Hawk/Flickr

Kat/Flickr

John McStravick/Flickr

With countless lakes, fishing, camping, water sports, and more, don’t be surprised if we suggest a date at a local lake.

andy curry/Flickr

While we’re frequently on-the-go, sometimes we like to slow it down a notch and take in a spectacular North Texas sky.

Texans are bold, so forget the subtleties. Whether it’s big houses, big hair, or big appetites, BIG rules supreme.

Dave Hensley/Flickr

Lucky for us, the Dallas - Fort Worth area features plenty of small towns and undisturbed lands, countless parks, greenbelt areas, and plenty of room to roam only a short drive away,.

Jessica Wissel/Flickr

It’s a tradition to take photos in our blue-and-orange fields each spring. If we ask you to take a photo in them, it means you are someone special!

CameliaTWU/Flickr

If you don’t know what a Texas armadillo is, we might suggest some Texas therapy. We expect our partner to share some of the same enthusiasm about the grandiose Lone Star State as we do!

knightdust5/Flickr

With professional teams in football, basketball, hockey, baseball, motorsports, rodeo, and more, we hope you are fans as well!

Brian’s Dallas Habitat For Humanity Photos/Flickr

We volunteer our time and would love for you to join in too. Our passion for helping others is one of the aspects that make us proud to be a Texan!

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